when you have kids, of course it changes for your taxes. And yes, if he brings it up again, definitely say your welcome to take it to someone else. Just don't get defensive about it. Or, you could throw in pretend kids and show him the difference. like you have time for that though.

awesome about the dinner date! you are so brave girl! and sounds like H was proud to have you as a W too.

I'm interested to relate the dates that you think the ski thing happened, and how things were in the R at that time. I know things weren't that great not too awfully long ago. but time flies pretty fast, so I can't remember.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."