You don't know me, but I am here. lol I kind of keep up with your thread (I live in infidelity...) but have been reading and sad for you this weekend.
Your exchange sounds fine to me, really. I would leave it at what you have already texted. Does it feel right to you, or are you just trying to reach out? I do the same thing sometimes, will reach out nicely to H, so I can start some communication with him. But your H seems very responsive to positive texting with you.
I am proud of you for receiving your kids back, being positive, making it ok that they had fun. You are amazing!!!!
