when you said H made a big thing out of the date, I wasn't sure if he was acting like it was a great idea, or if he was asking tons of questions, or acting upset about it.

if the later two, then I would definitely say it bothered him. And quite possibly it was the reason he didn't mention your corset. probably was wondering who you were wearing it for.

and with your H having the OW, of course he's going to think you could have this guy as your OM too. my H said once, he didn't care who I was friends with for how long, every guy is thinking about getting into the girls pants.

Sorry you got let down a bit, but you definitely have some positives, and maybe the other "date" thing caused most of the tension for him. Next time don't have another "date", but use something else as an excuse if you need to.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."