I have been very honest about where we need to go. I don't want to give up our marriage. I am willing to do whatever but she doesn't feel that it is worth the effort. She has been hurt and scared by this experience. She doen't want to be part of my life. I do believe if I have the right tools I can make this marriage work but I don't know what to do. I have a session with a family therapist on tuesday. I had to switch my therapist because I didn't feel the other individual would help me.