Sorry guys, been a little disoriented since my wife left me.

Here's something I haven't shared, I am a virgin, I've never had an intercourse with a girl before, and my wife is a virgin too.
This may have caused some problem in our marriage because being matured - im 35 and she's 30 we had all these expectation of how the experience would have been. For the first few weeks we realized that it could have been that we need to know each other. We talked a lot but for me it was a block. I thought I was stressed out because I now had to perform but I couldn't understand what was needed.

We tried watching porn to make it work but I couldnt get an erection. I could masturbate on my own but when we were together I would feel challenged to perform.

To be honest we haven't tried anything special to make this work for us. Since my wife is a doctor, her research tells her that this would require a lot of work and she had lost patience with me.