I think the money thing is just part of me, I am always worried we won't have enough for what ever we want to do, and some how we always get by. We have never been late on our house payment, car payment, or credit cards, we always pay them on time and in fact sometimes even way early. We both have stellar credit, so to get more is not a problem either, but I would like to get out of the hole that we have gotten ourselves into.
I have come out here to vent some of the stupidness going on in my life so that I know is not a problem, thanks Sandi. I do agree with Sandi on the part about men just don't understand why we as women complain about some things, and guys just think we are just being petty. I will say though H has been a great support this last week, I probably had the worst week at work in a very long time. A couple weeks ago we had our receptionist quit and last week we had another girl go out on maternaty leave early so it was just me to do three more jobs. Upper management shifted some other people around to help cover phones and pick up some of the other duties that I was doing but it still was not enough. They finally got some one in to fill the position for the girl out on leave, but I had to train her. I would normally not have a problem with that but I was not told that I had to train her until she was already at work and working. It was like "oh by the way" kind of thing. RRRRR
As for why my old friend doesn't want anything to do with me, that is a question I would love to have an answer to. I have asked that question in several different ways and not gotten an answer to it. I have moved on and am really trying to find new friends to do things with. I have jointed a new church so I hope that will give me the opportunity to meet some 'new' people. Funny thing is most of the younger poeple that are members I went to high school with, but I really don't think that they remember me or not. I have changed a bit in looks, I don't have that big huge 80's hair any more, LOL.
I think if I tell H to stay out of the problem between my and OF I think that he will. But(you know there is always a but) they possibly be serving on the same comittee for an event at work. She is salary in the main office and H works out in the plants. There is hope though that he will turn down the opportunity to be on the committee, depending on what Saturday they are planning on having the event, we may already have something on that day.
Yes we are commincating well but the timing of that communication stinks, it is always when we are in bed for the night, when its just the two of us. I am one who needs my 7-8 hours if not I am wrecked for the next day. We are usually up talking for at least another half hour to 45 minutes past the time that I normally go to bed. So I know that is something that I need to work on with him.
