A lot of us want to thank our X's for Ding us, if you can believe it. Unfortunately, it's a painful process to get to this point.
It's comforting to hear someone say this..
KL- It sounds like we are on about the same calendar as far as the D being final. In a way, it'll be good to finally move on with life but so sad, like so many others, that it had to turn out this way. I've found that I'm finally able to get myself out and really start to GAL... Something I couldn't find it in me to do while stuck in limbo while H tried to make up his mind. Anyway, this is helping me find the real me that I seem to have lost over the years. It's liberating really. Try it...
I think it's ok to be bitter for a while just don't let it take over your life forever.
