Just updating. MIL called - it was actually really good to talk to her. However, at one point I said I was ready to move on and hoped W and OM would be happy together. MIL asked, Who's OM?

I apologized, said W had told me that MIL knew, and we moved on. But why would W lie about something like that? MIL was floored and upset, so I believe her that she didn't know. Maybe I misunderstood W about who knew, but I'm 99% positive she said MIL knew. Anyway, it's not my job to keep track of who does and doesn't know about the A. Another thing, W asked me a couple of days ago if it was okay if MIL called me. If she knew MIL didn't know, why wouldn't she have said something? Or just told MIL I didn't want to talk. Is this her way of getting me to do the dirty work of letting people know?

Anyway, started looking at rental places. Depressing to think of moving again, but it will be good to set up my own place the way I want to set it up. Rent prices are out of control, but won't be that different from the mortgage I'm currently paying. I should look at something cheaper, but most of those places have been sh*tholes and I need to be in a nice spot right now.


Divorced: 10/26/08