I'm sorry you are having this turn of events....but you're smart enough to know this is how it can go. And I LOVE how you are putting your foot down......being firm and IGNORING bad behavior. That is the best way (except in the case of abuse). IGNORE. And only reward good behavior.
I personally really love the KLA tapes, and I think it will help you to keep listening. You already have most of those skills....it will just be reinforcing, and maybe encouraging to hear Michele's voice. What I think might help.....and just reinforce that you're doing the right things is joining our discussions on the Women's Network when we get to the Basic Training chapter. Training this man's behavior.
I hope this is really successful for you, Tip....
I can think of 2 people on the board, who are still in the midst of things with their spouse....that I think are blackbelt DBers.....where I really can only offer support.....because you 'get it' and are really doing the very best. You are one of these 2 people.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
