Got back from he kiddies party today D6 and I enjoyed ourselves, D6 gave W a run down of how her day went, a blow by blow account in 6 yo style. However W had an ambush planned for me or it seemed planned. She didn't ask me how my day was, she just jumped in with "was I missed by everyone" I replied "Well not really". Then W sprung her trap. "See, there you go no one missed me, if I was at the party they would all have totally ignored me". Well that led to a little argument between us, me in my position telling W she's missing the bigger picture and it should be all about the two of us standing together as a couple. W in her position still trying to reinforce her point that she gets ignored at family events involving my family and she's not going to attend anymore.
Well I'm a bit peed off with W cos she's trying to set a divide to avoid certain people who know of our sitch and she's not looking at how we move forward together and tackle all issues. If I was clueless and I didn't know where I was going with our R then I could understand her point. But I know that for us to be fully reconciled the two of us need to be a tight unit.
Well I'm just gonna sit back for a while and let my feelings ( full of emotion) settle down before we talk again.
