I don't have a lot of time to post but wanted to pick up on this (I admire your forthrightness and bravery in talking about it by the way).....
Originally Posted By: Purr
I would say yes to both of these reasons. She speaks directly to the second one a lot (making the focus me usually) but she has spoken occasionally to the first one and from my perspective, that is a hugely significant part. She's said she feels scared that her body is changing, time is running out and that she'll never be able to really experience this and it is such an important part of her life and she is in her prime now and doesn't want it to go to waste. I'm paraphrasing badly, I'm sure, but this is the essence of it. She doesn't speak to this in MC at all though--it's all about me / "us", but none of this MLC part about her stuff is spoken.
Your W is saying that she wants real passion(?). Do you think she's saying that legitimately, or is it the alien speaking? If she wants to feel desired and desirable and you think it's legitimate, what could you do to help her with that? Have you read 5 LLs? It might be a worth a read and trying to see if you can identify hers....
BTW, IMHO I think it's too early to be considering your own place. Look by all means, but don't assume that's what's going to be happening. I still believe your W is confused and you have a good chance at reconciliation....
L.
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
