But if you can tough it out and be humorous, even tease her a little... I dont know if you've already been trying to make her laugh at all (hey, even smile is a start).
Yes, humor has often been a part of our contact and does make her laugh. Sometimes it is hard for me to go there when things feel so difficult. But definitely she has enjoyed this from what I can tell.
Originally Posted By: AliSuddenlyAlone
If she says she is attacting sexual attention and that was missing from the R.. why is that? Is she having the classic MLC thing, eeek, I'm getting old and I am a woman and this is my last chance to turn a few heads before I hit the menopause !? Or is it that the passion had naturally eased off becuase you were together a long time?
I would say yes to both of these reasons. She speaks directly to the second one a lot (making the focus me usually) but she has spoken occasionally to the first one and from my perspective, that is a hugely significant part. She's said she feels scared that her body is changing, time is running out and that she'll never be able to really experience this and it is such an important part of her life and she is in her prime now and doesn't want it to go to waste. I'm paraphrasing badly, I'm sure, but this is the essence of it. She doesn't speak to this in MC at all though--it's all about me / "us", but none of this MLC part about her stuff is spoken.
