my story adventures of a WAW!

[christarn]

HIC, I'm also happy to hear that you have the same feelings that I do. My friends and family have told me time and time again to move on. Your H is out partying and having a great time, and your going to let him do that, etc etc. But I just know that at this point God is giving me the strength I need to continue on fighting for my H/R/and M. It's so crazy, every time I feel like I'm supposed to give up, I pray, or read scripture, and I'm back to being just as motivated to continuning on. As I said before, He will let me know when it is time to let go.

One of my dear friends, has also been a total DB coach, I don't know where or how she knows what she knows, but she is my biggest advocate for saving my M. She is the one of finally got it thru to me to stop chasing and really work on GAL. And she has never read any of Michelles stuff!!! She's like girls, you gotta start making him wonder what the hell your up too!!! Let him start chasing you!! She and I talk daily, and I believe God brought her into my life at the right time, to help me thru this. she has also been a great prayer partner too. she's been a true blessing! I do agree with what you said about your friend. I think if you ask your H at what point would he ask for a D, it may be a stumbling block. Or he may wonder why is she asking me that. I wouldn't advise going that far. I think you are doing great with where you are now. Keep on doing what you are doing. If you come to a bump in your road, change things up a bit, then watch and monitor your results...do your DB'ing!!

Take care, and thanks as always for checking in with me!
(((hugs)))
Christa