nic,

Thanks for stopping by. I know all sitches are different, but I appreciate the input!

As I look back I see more problems in my M than I realized at the time, but it was NOT a bad M. My H is one of the good guys who did a 180. He even TOLD me he wanted to "be the bad guy" for a while because he never got to when he was younger. Sad, ya know?

Glad that you have been able to detach and get to a place that is healthy for you. I'm still trying!


Me:40, xH:41
M:19 T:21
D14, S10, D6
IDLYA bomb:12/22/06
OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06
H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07
D papers served 6/07
D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(