If they are on HER computer and HER camera, then I don't think you have any right to delete them (although I think it's perfectly OK for you to ASK her to, telling her that they are hurtful to you and disrespectful of your marriage).
If they are on YOUR computer (or jointly owned) and/or camera, then I think you have a RIGHT to, but I would advise against it. It would be better if you asked her to delete them, for the reasons mentioned above.
Just my take. I'd like to get DMB's take on this, since he actually did it.
