Refuse To Lose, Part VI

[AliSuddenly]

Hey RTL..I'm so sorry, things do seem to be going from bad to worse dont they? Its worrying about your D...she is getting confusing messages and your W isnt helping at all I am sure. Have you spoken to your T about this? Sounds like your D knows the OMs name and possibly spends time in his company, with your W and then gets to see you and sees her Mum acting cold and mean towards her Dad, which wasnt the case before she moved out and perhaps thats why she doesnt chat when you call her? I dont know but I bet she is confused. Seems very sad all round and your W is behaving very selfishly quite honeslty. She shouldnt be exposing your D to OMs company so soon on in the R and just after she has uprooted her from her home and family life and Dad. I'm utterly amazed at the innapropriate way she is handling it.

And then theres you..continue to be dark and be polite and upbeat and friendly but I dont know...re read the bit on the Last Resort Technique and post here for advice if your not sure. You CAN still DB even though you dont think you can. You have to rise above it I think as your W is being a b*tch right now! Or spiteful perhaps. Things will surely thaw, she is definetly still in teh anger stage. She seems to have alot of pent up rage but I'm betting its not all about you, its probably to do with her Dad and stuff....

Thinking of you as usual! Sorry I havent posted much lately, but I wasnt sure what to say to help, its all a bit grim at the moment. What we can say though is you are really being brave to keep trying like this and I'm sure your friends and family think you should call her all the names under the sun and tell her to F off by now! It must be very tough going, we're here for you,

Ali
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Me: 37 H: 34
T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
will he reconnect?