If your H is a 'public' figure do you think OW is blackmailing him emotionally with going public if he tries to work things out with you???
Something feels not quite right about this. To be enlisting the help of a friend to get rid of OW, (which is why you saw the eamil), to then go to wanting a D now that you know the whole truth just seems strange. I would have thought your H would feel relief that it was all out in the open and you could work as a team at getting rid of OW. Is it one of your 'requirements' that is the sticking point? If he thinks your requirements are reasonable then surely there is something else going on here?
I am so pleased you have a good support network.
You know, this doesn't sound like it's done yet. I am so curious as to your H's turn around - why fight for keeping the M for so long to just being like this in a two/three week period? Strange.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
