Those smiles you force will eventually come naturally again. I am about 3 months in, and it is only recently that I am feeling good again. My W said to me that one of the biggest problems for her was my reaction to all this. While she says she understands why I `went off at the deep end!`. She didnt like seeing that... all the crying begging pleading etc... So in some ways I think that both S and living together has some benefits, at least when you want to throw a loopy fit, he is not there to see it! I am thinking that in her head my W is coming around to me, but she doesnt let on. I am looking at the body language and the increased eye contact. So look at your H as well as talking to him. It is good you had a happy normal conversation. Start to imagine you are not married and your H is just someone who you would like to go out with. How would you act then?
Your H is spending time with his family, and his family sound sympathetic to you, so that can only be a good thing. It is good that there is nothing `pulling` him away from you like OW or something. You just have to make sure to not `push` him.
These sitchs are definately in our hands, we can make or break these Ms. And to tell the truth... that responsibilty scares the hell out of me sometimes... what if I screw it up. But then I realise I got my W once, there is nothing stopping me getting her again. Will be sweeter this time round too, as I will be stealing her back from OM!
When we get through this, it will be added proof that we are meant to be with our partners! Destiny!
Cheers
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
