i'm sorry your feeling so broken. my heart goes out to you. why do you think your H was enlisting the help of a friend to leave OW and now says he only wants a D? What were your requirements outlined in the letter?
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence