great, Amen. But I can't recall the very first post you had, so was it another screen name? Just curious. Still, the last 20 posts of yours which I did read, say exactly what you're saying. It is rarely hopeless. Two years ago, I'd have given my M maybe a 15% chance of working out. I didn't say a way out without HIM changing. And the only real changes in him, came after the ones in me, or at least that's when I was able to notice them...weird. But good!
Keep on keeping on.
(( j- ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016