Good with me but I think the wife is not doing so well. I think she knows that I am detaching and it has made her become rather withdrawn because it is totally different from the way I have been for 10 years of marriage. I think instead of making her draw to me it is making her face her guilt and that is not something that she does well. In the face of that she usually shuts down. This is more of a personal emotional thing than it is a relationship issue. See, she has lots of personal things to deal with that have little or nothing to do with our relationship or her kids. Our marriage and her kids really had nothing to do with her leaving and she said as much. It is sad, she needs help and she knows it but she wont do it. I can't do it for her. I think she is determined to repeat the mistakes of her mother. I am sorry for her but it is out of my hands.
