you are totally right nic, about the control issue. For so long I've tried to control the sitch and plan how things should fall in place, and have been terribly disappointed when they did not.
Wish I would remember the title of this song I heard yesterday, but one line I loved was "I should've started running long time ago".
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.