ISH, From reading yourpost about your H doing the celebration ritual and him saying he hopes to still be friends and the "even if" it does look like a baby step. It's strange what he said about not wanting OW. Do you think he's gay? Could he be preparing you ahead of time?
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Plenty hope, odd that he removed his ring last Sunday if he was only with his sister isn't it? When I described the relationship his sister has with H my coach characterized it as "emotional incest". She would like nothing better than to have H more to herself as her partner probably does not provide the emotional support that her brother can. My coach thinks she has been undermining my marital relationship. Today the three of them have gone to a play in a town that is 1 1/2 hours away. Tomorrow she'll be meeting him for church as well as lunch.
Yep, very odd that he removed his ring for his sister. Was it really his sister that he saw then? Who is the 3rd person going to the play today? That OW? I agree that for your own sanity, don't be Nancy Drew. It'll probably drive you crazy especially if you can't get all the facts and then resort to guess-work. -PH
