He's trying to show something, that he can take care of himself, give himself what he needs or thinks he needs. He defined it, planned it and will see how it all works.
And he has said as much, Gypsy. He says this is for him, something just for him. Before Christmas he bought a big screen TV (claiming it was for his dad's, but he has yet to take it), and when he was buying it online, he said "Merry Christmas to me" and clicked to purchase. He has felt so very neglected, so left behind, so put waaaay down on the list, that its bubbling up and taking him over. This way of thinking has made him a very selfish person in so many ways.
FIL's party. Sigh. It was way more uncomfortable than I thought it would be. But only for me, I think. The girls had fun, no one else seemed uncomfortable. I heard rumblings of H's party next weekend, so his family is invited (which H told me). It was all weird. They don't know. I don't think they have a clue. I told H tonight that I won't be taking them to functions anymore until he balls up and tells his family what's going on. Its been a month and according to him, nothing is changing, so why not tell!??
