My niece was born today. Wh's sister had a little girl. It is my kids first and only cousin. I went to see them at the hospital today. None of the family knows yet. I held that little baby and just fell in love. And then I cried the whole way home because I know I'll have to give up being a part of that family. I have been a part of the family for 12 years and I have to let them go. They are good people. I know they'll always love my kids. But I also know that blood this thicker and the right thing to do is just let WH have his family.


Me BS 30
Him WH 32
Kids 9, 4 and 2
Together 12 years
DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation
DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided

Separating and heartbroken