I have about a month on you. I found out about affair Dec. 9th. Dont be hard on yourself I have just recently found it within my self to really start DB'ing and I have days where I still cant do it.
I have to say it's hard to implement DB shortly after you discover a WAS's A. I didn't start until about 3-1/2 months after that point! Even though I wish I had found this site sooner to help me through that nightmare! How can your GAL and maintain a positive PMA when you're living through h3ll?
So, for those of you doing this relatively soon after discovering a WAS's A, I solute you! I really do.
Hurtmom, about your H and his phone ... are you sure he wasn't sleeping? Perhaps his phone wasn't nearby? OR, would it be possible to pre-arrange meeting times to avoid the aggravation of him not returning your calls/messages in a timely manner? Or, if he can't pre-arrange a meeting time, ask him to please call YOU and let you know the night before or the morning of...
There's more than one way of getting out of a 'cheeseless tunnel'.
