I forgot to add that the last couple days (H saw me yesterday and today) I have also been looking my best. I wore some of my new tighter clothes (that actually fit) since I've lost the 40 pounds or so that I lost, wore makeup, even curled my hair which I never do!
YOU GO GIRL!
It's good to see that you and your H are talking about things bit by bit. No matter what happens with you and H, it's good to have resolution, you know?