I concur..dont leave it a couple of weeks (too long, the trail will go cold!) but dont phone within a few days, too keen. So about a week. I cant really add anything astrologically yet, but I dont think you can "do" anymore..you're already in it trying to win it, so dont worry! He has to be too though dont forget, and looks like he just bought some chips and rejoined the table!
Also..yes, I was angry at how my BF handled things pre-bomb and he said some terrible things at the bomb (IDLYA being the most stand out one for me I guess!). I'm also very mad that he ended it a week after we buried our cat, after how ill he'd been for months and all the trips up and down the motorway with him to Bristol and all the treatment and he was fine and it was so crushing that he then died and I didnt have time to grieve for him (I know hes only a cat but I used to joke to my BF that I loved him more than I loved my BF..which in hindsight was possibly not the best thing I couldve said!) Anyway, I'm not even sure you need an "excuse" to ring him, becuase didnt he want to keep in touch and know how you were, or did I get that wrong? Remind me what the last conversation ended like ??
This has been such an exciting week! You, Essie, Me, Kalni, W2G, Jeff, Michelle, Lisa... progress and things shifting all over!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
