Sounds similar to my sitch.. in the fact that any intimacy we've had has been initiated by me as well. Funny, but it is different then it was prior to the bomb.. much less loving.. more primal. I miss the tender and loving feeling I used to get from it. I also told my H that if he was interested in us continuing to have s*x that I think he should be the one to initiate it once in a while.. since then there has been a drought!!
