I am struggling with the intimacy since there is OW, although H is not living with her and I believe it has died down some. On the otherhand, I was the one initiating and H did say he doesn't want to hurt me any more. He has spent the night several times since Easter weekend but hasn't initiated ML so I really can't blame him for that. I will just continue to do what I've been doing because it seems to be working.
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