Doesn't need a father now? Um where is the logic in that? Can you go back to teaching? At this point you much do what is best for you and D that is part of GAL. Act as if....you are happy, you are getting on with your life. Always be cordial of course.
I believe that by him saying he will come to you he is saying that he wants space. However, needing space from you does not excuse him from being a father.
Perhaps you should keep a journal of what works and what does not, of your 180's and goals.
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