Thanks everyone. Jen thanks for bumping my post. I'll visit you on your new thread. Stella, just posted on your thread. WOW!!!
Ping and Kalni, I appreciate your input. I know that H is still confused about a lot of things including his job/career. I agree that he keeps coming around because he hasn't given up on the M. I guess I have to continue to make it safe for him to keep wanting to come around. I have to make myself the more "attractive" person. I get the sense that things are dying down with OW - the euphoria is slowly dwindling. I won't set boundaries right now because what I've been doing seems to be working. So I will continue to do more of what is working.
Thanks for your support!!!
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz