Thanks everyone.
Jen thanks for bumping my post. I'll visit you on your new thread.
Stella, just posted on your thread. WOW!!!

Ping and Kalni,
I appreciate your input. I know that H is still confused about a lot of things including his job/career.
I agree that he keeps coming around because he hasn't given up on the M. I guess I have to continue to make it safe for him to keep wanting to come around. I have to make myself the more "attractive" person. I get the sense that things are dying down with OW - the euphoria is slowly dwindling.
I won't set boundaries right now because what I've been doing seems to be working. So I will continue to do more of what is working.

Thanks for your support!!!


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz