Well, at least we made you laugh this morning, after all. And, without 'how Dr. 6th Sense saw ghosts" stories. Instead, it was about the "fra fra voom voom girls"
We keep asking ourselves...."geez...shouldn't we know better by now...why do we get so suckered"
Well, we don't know better when others portray themselves otherwise. And, talk isn't cheap for us.
But, how about this. How about we make pact to be more realistic. How about we try to keep from being pessimistic and jaded, but are more realistic and honest.
You know what Javier is about. He's had 2 years to prove it to you. He's a different guy. Like my friends constantly tell me about xh "Always, the man you knew is GONE...." Yep. So, why expect anything? Things change with these guys on a whim. It's best to assume reality, the "trend" of what they have demonstrated in the past few years. Anything better can just be an occasional delight, and nothing more.
I agree with Althea. If you catch him on the weeks where he's promising you the world, being nice and sappy, take it. Get what you need then. Gently hit him up for what you need. And, leave it at that and don't expect it again and don't expect consistency.
So, then we get all depressed (and dramatic, of course)..."who can we trust, why are people like this...." We CAN trust ourselves, your kids, our families, our friends. That's a lot.