RTL, At this point as far as your DBing goes, I think if your W is going to come back she will no matter what you do. It sounds like she does not trust or believe and blames you for all that is lacking in her life. She makes things up in her mind and is convinced they are true. Actually it sounds like she is fighting the divorce more than moving it forward. She sounds so conflicted. She wants a D but wants you to provide for her. Amazing, because she is the one who left. Save the text she sent even if you think it was not intended for you. The word harassment comes to mind. The junk about Din your bed is usually pulled by women who are fighting a D and want to scare their H's into coming back.Like saying, if you D me, I will see to it that you lose the child. Hopefully for your D's sake, your W is going to a therapist.
