sorry I haven't checked on you the last few days...
I think you ARE GETTING THERE!! YOU ARE!!! I don't care if he was drunk or not, I actually believe when we are drunk we are more honest... BUT, do not pursue him now, push him, become impatient. It seems that he values the space you are giving him a lot. Good Luck Girlfriend, I am happy for you!
K
PS I wouldn't bring this convo up. See what he does...