((( Lissie ))) My eyes welled up reading your post, its so damn hard, I am so sorry, it hurts for what seems like forever, in fact the residue, does it ever end?
After going on 6 yrs the residue I feel now is for my S and how I feel he has been "ripped off" so I understand how you feel about your ex and his poor mouthing, mine too, when he threatened not to pay for S last year of college ( or rather help S pay for it) I just came right out and said maybe if your chickie and you cut down your trips , you could do the responsible thing for your ONLY child! idiot man! he did agree tho, go figure.
Ya know Lissie they do get it eventually, whether they change or not, is another story, but after my ex being in mlc for at least 6 yrs, he is now seeing the destruction he left in his path, but my gosh it took a lot of time and pain, and will he change? prob not, but hes now aware, so J may too, sooner or later and Susan will not be this perfect wonderful fault-less woman he may percieve her as now, I can see my ex and his chickie not being as hunkey dorey as I had imagined these past 4 yrs , That rose has lost its bloom at least partially too.
You will see, then whatever happens will be most likley your call. I'm glad to be done w/ it.
Have a nice rest of your weekend. I dont need this board either so much but what a great bunch of folks there are.
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