She may still be lacking something. - Possibly, but I don't know what.
She may be thinking about the OM. - Maybe but I have no way of checking this.
She may really be thinking of you. - Yes, she does think of me but to what extent I'm not sure.
She may be looking for a way to tell you to step it up a little.-I doubt it, although her defense mechanisms are on a lessened state of alert.
She may really enjoy being close like this. - She does now, she mentioned that I have a magic touch when I gave her a massage.
Theres still a lot of unknowns above and the only way I can see to understand them is to talk about them. But talking about them is the very thing which may drive her away again. We haven't done any R talking at all and this really did bother me but as more positives occur I get less concerned about this. But the concern hasn't gone away yet.