I agree with the besotted thing, but...

I wonder if it's fair to have an expectation that the guy doesn't know about. Maybe you'll meet a really fantastic guy who adores you, but just isn't the type to show it by being in touch a lot. So what would you do? Tell him that's what you want? Probably, if/when it gets serious enough. But if you dump him right away b/c he's not meeting needs that he doesn't know about, you might miss out on someone very special.

Love, N


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