I am also thinking it wasn't meant for me, but it still made me think and shook me up a bit.
As for contacting her, I'm going to settle our household items w/ her w/out the L's involved to save costs. I think I can pretty much give her most of what she's asking for b/c ultimately I'm making out very well. My L told me to do it if I could b/c it will be less for him to worry about.
Otherwise, I'm going dark. I'll communicate about D stuff and some basic decisions we have to make about the house, but nothing else. I miss her, but I need her to not be a part of my every day life when she is this angry.
I just met w/ another realtor who said we don't have to replace the roof, but may need to once we sell (or adjust the price). However, he did say we need to spend a couple of thousand dollars on painting, interior fixes, cleaning the carpets, landscape touch-ups, etc, but otherwise won't need to do a lot of heavy financial lifting to get it market ready. The problem is I either need W to agree to release our equity line to pay for these items or agree to split them w/ me either up front or after the sale. If she balks at either of those options, I'll be looking to buy her out and see for myself what I can do w/ the house.
Thanks for following along, EM. I really apprecaited your opinions on my sitch.
