The kid connection seems like that is what makes it so stinki' hard.
Ok Kiki- dumb question but why do you have to go to court? Didn't your lawyer suggest mediation? That is what we started with. Or have you already done that?
Also-in regards to contacting your H. I think you have been doing fantastic!! It is so hard with the kids - having them be "in" our lives but not.
Your H is a bit of a butthole...but you have to say it has GOT to make it easier to not liek him - doesnt it? My H plays the "passive" role --- it makes it hell because i always see these "Glimmers" of his old self...very very small glimmers..but they are there and THAT is what pulls me back in.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
