As long as WAS's have something to be angry at the LBS for it helps them to rationalize their decisions including the D. I think that it is evident in the fact that she keeps bringing it up, but doesn't have anything to say about it.
You are so right HiC, ever since I started the 180ing and not making any contact I have not heard the D word again. It has been over a month since she has said anything about it. I gave her the space she said she wanted, GAL, and act as if (maybe to much) and I never here anything about the D or relationship. She really tries to be friendly and act like nothing happened. I am not going for that either but at least the D talk stopped.
