Hey RTL - I'm still following along. you seem to be really getting your "ducks in a row." I'm with nut on the emails - I wouldn't even acknowledge anything that didn't have to do with your d. She baits you at every turn about everything. I think you need to really go dark - completely. If it's about your D respond, if it isn't, don't. She couldn't care less about the house - she left it. She willingly walked away. She couldn't care less about her stuff - she walked away. Who does that? Someone that doesn't care, that's who. Don't believe anything she says or anything she writes - you can only believe her actions and they are speaking loud and clear...just my opinion.

In regard to the text message, I don't think it was intended for you, quite honestly. I think she accidentally sent it to you...doesn't make sense any other way. If she wanted to zing you she would have. And you wouldn't walk away from the text thinking, wth? She's clear with you when she wants to be. It sounds like she was responding to someone.

I hope you are enjoying your day with your D. I think you might be getting to see her more and more. This parenting eval thing seems to be working in your favor. Hang in there! YOu are doing well.

Em


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley