"Well, somtimes I feel a bit guilty cos it's all about me, so this morning I said to W, I am sorry if you feel I'm taking advantage, but sometimes I just need to... well you know. W replied "Not at all" so I said you're not mad then, W replied "No", "It's, just that I need to get used to your touch again"."
Pay attention.
"Now on the face of it that would seem like a positive comment, but I've heard it before, she's been giving me the " I need to get used to you" comment for the last two years and in that time OM has come and gone on more than one occasion."
You are driving the car from the rear view mirror. You ran into something last time. Look where you are going. Not where you have been. You have assurances feeling like this did not work before. Drop down a gear and push on the gas. Just keep looking ahead. No I did not just say jump her bones.
"Why does this comment bother me, well it just feels like W is holding me at bay and then when her needs bocome too strong, she satisfys them with OM, not with me. (Thats how things went last time)"
I know why. Question is can you tell us why?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
