absolute no sex

[Dom R]

Thanks for the response. Wanted to address some of the key questions you asked.

Alimad.. you answered some of the questions asked by people.. but you chose the least important ones to answer

DB is about looking for solutions. A key part in that, is talking about what has worked, and what has not worked.

You did not answer the most important questions of,

"who has been trying things?"
"WHAT, specifically, has been tried?"

And there's also the side question of who thinks sex is important, and who does not. If one of you thinks sex between the two of you is important, and the other one does not... that is probably the #1 most important issue.