Can you treat it like a booty call, friends with benefits? That is, can you have sex w/your X with no expectations and w/out feeling like you've been used? Sit with those questions for a while...and pay attention to how you feel.

There are no "shoulds" in life, only what works for you.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!