ohh I know about the mind reader thing.. it erks me so when they just assume you know what the heck they are thinking!!
If they would just say half of the time what they meant so much could be accomplished!
I think a lot of times the WAS doesn't even know what they mean or want. My H told me last night that he wished I had done this play with him back at the end of late last year; he might not have had the affair maybe, but he said he didn't realize how important it was that I do the play. He told me at the time he didn't care whether I did it or not! If they don't know their own minds, they can't/don't communicate it and we of course aren't (confused) mind readers!!! Karen