All I can say is that what he is doing is emotionally abusive on some level, even if it's unintentional an indirect. He ignores me, won't touch me, doesn't call or email me unless it's necessary, won't go anywhere with me alone and snaps at me in ways he never did. Yes, I understand he is in trouble and suffering himself. On the other hand, he is causing me a huge amount of pain.

Last night (after my above post) when he came to bed I said "How are you?" He said "fine, how are you?" I said "I feel very sad that you won't touch me. It makes me feel so rejected." He said "Sorry."


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08