Hi RC, I understand about having few friends that you can trust to b*tch to about things. I think it is important to have those friends b/c H's really don't like to hear W's complain about small stuff.....they think it is petty, but to us it is important. I have learned that working with male bosses and my H over the many years. So, let it out to the girlfriends and don't complain to H.
This single friend of yours that was jealous of your life. How can you be so certain that she would never allow an EA to happen? There have been many A started by a situation just like this one. Sometimes just being thrown together is cause enough, but if she should start seeing him in a different light and .....you know the rest. I'm not trying to give you more to worry about, even though it sounds like it, but I've seen this happen before.
Anyway, maybe your H is understanding the thing between you and friend now and hopefully he will not pursue it any further. I also hope he kind of keeps his distant from her.
Let me know how things go. BTW, you can b*tch to me anytime...lol.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
