God give me the patience and the strength...2

[theotherhalf]

just got word that H put his truck in a BIG ditch this morning at 2 am.

He drank from 8-11 am yesterday then from 1:30pm-2:30 this morning. Headed to OW's this morning after drinking all that time. She lives in a town 15 miles from where he lives. He is home and SIL checked on him. Says he might have broken ribs but is okay.

My first instinct is to go to him. To be there for him. To make sure that he is okay. SIL said NO don't do anything. He is a big boy and he's chosen to live like this and he needs to suffer his own concenquences. I know that she is right, but it is killing me.

This MLC and OW is going to land this man in jail or worse...dead. And there is nothing I can do to stop it.

And OW doesn't care. She doesn't know him like I do. She has nothing to lose. She has led this once good, respectful, proud man into being a pathetic waste of a life and sees or cares not one iota.