Are you both sexually experienced or is lack of experience an issue for either of you?
Why do you want to stay in the M. If you do not find her attractive is it right to subject yourselves to a life of no passion? To stay for religious reason's alone?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength